90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After?
A sneak peek from90 Day Fiance : blithely Ever After?reveals Usman “ Sojaboy ” Umar ’s mother is not live on to make the same error double by giving her blessing to Usman to hook up with another older American ma’am , at least not until he marries a younger charwoman first.90 Dayfans will remember that Usman ’s phratry previously bear Usman when he asked to espouse his first married woman , Lisa Hamme . Lisa and Usman chaffer his familyand bring a endowment of farm animal to show their respect and sexual love for the family , a meeting that work well . The Oct. 16 instalment featured a flighty Kim Menzies , with a Taurus the Bull in tow , meeting Usman ’s crime syndicate for the first time . Kim and Usman convey their desire to marry , their love for one another , and their Bob Hope for the family ’s bread and butter . However , their asking and the gift of the papal bull were not well - received this meter around , and Usman ’s crony even asserted the bull was a payoff .
A snip portion out byPeopleshows a stunned and deflated Kim in the aftermath of her meeting with Usman ’s kinfolk . AsUsman and Kim enter their hotel way , she states , “ I do n’t even know what to say , to be honest . Like the payoff thing is what got me . ” Usman concord and shares that he was also shocked by his family ’s reaction to their gift of the bull as well as their reluctance to take Kim as the first married woman . He thought the family would be touched by their willingness to take a second wife who could bear children , but instead “ … they just turned it upside down . ” The family rejected their proposition and insisted that Usman marry another fair sex of childbearing age before marrying Kim .
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Kim Tells Usman ‘It’s Over’ After He Accepts His Mother’s Conditions
After referencing his Nigerian culture , Usman explainshis fear for his female parent . He states,“I recall after God , I see my mom second God to me . ”Usman tells Kim it is for that reason he can not go against his female parent ’s wishes . Kim immediately responds , “ Then it ’s over . I ’m not gon na be the second married woman . I ca n’t . I ca n’t let myself be like that … But for me I wo n’t do that . I wo n’t be anybody ’s second anything . ” In a solo interview , Kim explains that while she has respect for his mother and understands that the family was attempting to compromise with her she would not budge on this issue for her own self - worth . " Getting the claim of the first wife is so important to me because in premature relationships , I always came second . Always . I was always campaign to the side , and I ’m not gon na let that happen to me again . "
Kim has displayed her allegiance and adorationfor Usman since their relationship began . She has made several compromises at the disbursal of her ego - Charles Frederick Worth cause her ally and family unit to be distressed . Her ignorance over the moral force of certain Nigerien customs has also been on display and furious fans . Meeting Usman ’s family and hear about their arithmetic mean has forced Kim to face an upsetting reality .
Happily Ever Afterseason 7 may be the remnant of the route for Kim and Usman as it appears that they have gain an impossible dead-end street . Kim claim that she will not agitate on the married woman issue and refuses to feel like she is secondly best after suffering from this complex in other relationships . She has probably reached her limit when it comes to sacrificing her wishesin the name of her love for Usman . He will have to be the one to make the uncomfortable determination of function against his household if he desire to splice Kim and live in the United States one day .
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Source : People
